Letter 14: Someone you’ve drifted away
We were best friends
We both shared the joy
Of living with God.
We were Christians
We were sisters
We both knew each other’s every thought.
No I didn’t take it for granted
I knew what we had was to treasure.
I reveled in those moments
Assuming they’d last forever.
But they didn’t did they? Nope we drifted apart. They call it the inevitable but I’m not sure it’s the same for us. I was here. Always have been, always will be here. But you left me. My heart cracked when I lost you. The first person I ever learned to care about. It was incredible what you and I had. Being friends with you taught me so much. So much. I still can’t thank you enough for being my friend all those years.
I remember when Dad used to call you my ‘shadow’ because we were always together. Friendship is bliss. Well it was.
Then you got in with the wrong crowd. I had an awful feeling about them. You started drinking and then you went out with that guy. I remember riding over to your house. You’d skipped school and spent the day at home with your boyfriend. As you pleaded me not to tell your mum he’d been there I looked deep in your eyes, searching for the girl I knew. What had you done with my best friend? All I could see was the sapling of misery taking root in your heart.
I didn’t come back again. You didn’t want me to. You stopped returning my calls and stopped coming to church. For years I have cried for you. I really thought that introducing you to God when you were 11 would save you from the horrors of the teenage years without God. But it was not His plan and I often ask Him why you have to suffer like you do.
There is a silent and awkward air between us now. The last time I saw you, you downed a bottle so you wouldn’t have to face me for the rest of the night. We never spoke about our friendship or increasing lack there of it. We just knew. It was the end for us. You chose the worldly life and I remained on my walk with God. We couldn’t co-exist. Not with your conscience.
I hate that I have to be God’s representative when I remember that that is why you despise me. You see him in me and cannot stand the conviction you feel when you’re around me. So you avoid me. Our friendship evaporated. And I miss you like hell.